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My Idea of Romance
By Vishii Rita Krocha

Red red roses that fill the room with its undeniable lovely fragrance, one that’s indeed of beauty and easily allures just anybody around.

A soft candle lit dinner, heart shaped balloons hung where it fits best, chocolates and flowing music all set to fill your senses and allow you to merge on through the night.

The breezy weather outside suitably fits your mood as the wind softly blows the curtains. The serenading wind blows and you can see stars shinning their brightest. And then right beside you, the person you have given your heart to , looks at you with such love in his eyes like he has never loved another, like he has never seen one as beautiful as you.

I pictured this perfect dinner setting with two lovebirds in my mind. I think its pretty romantic and perhaps it would be a less ordinary occasion for any couple. Yet my idea of romance is more than just candle lit dinners, its just not a perfect night of saying ‘I love you’s’ and savoring a single day of happiness. Maybe moments like these are necessary because they give us a lift, an extraordinary feeling and it certainly tells us that sometimes its important to spend quality time together.

Romancing is just not an affair that you keep for the sake of it and not because you are scared to be alone. Its that love in your heart for a person that takes you beyond your horizons and farer than you can imagine.

A perfect romance is loving wholeheartedly without any reservations. It is accepting each other just the way he or she is,it is tolerating each others’ temper and the things you don’t always agree to. It is trusting and being honest.It is having dreams of a life together.

Romancing is doing things for each other and never having to ask the other person to repay you back. My whole idea of romance comes down to love because love is the reason why it all began and it is this driving force that is going to stand the test of time.

It may not be frequently or may not even be once-in-a-year thing that you have romantic candle lit dinners or it may be that you never have it at all. One thing I can assure you, if you love with all your heart, no matter what situation you are in, then you are romancing all the way.

For romance is just a virtue of love.All I know about it is that you do everything and anything for your soulmate with love, counting the joys of simply being in each other’s presence, watching rainbows, going for walks, taking care of each other and just treading life together through thick and thin. Until one truly loves, he has never romanced.

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I Am In Love
By Shubhanyu Jain

I stated above that I am in love. Let us try to verify if it, indeed, is love.

To me, love is a feeling, a sentiment, an emotion, rather than a desire. Love originates from respect; you can not love the person you have no respect for. But the converse may not always hold true. It is possible to respect a person you do not love.

A shopkeeper-buyer relation, for example, is based on respect rather than love.

Love is expressible in various ways. Touch, intimacy, a smile, a look of the eyes, a warm hug, a soft peck, are all ways of expressing love.

Sex is also a means of expressing love; but the youngsters of yolk have today degraded the act of bodily union to the point where it has come to be considered taboo.

Sex is not about passion, passion is a manifestation. Sex is not about having intercourse, intercourse is an intermediary to a stronger bond between the two.

Sex is not about kissing the body everywhere and lip-locking vehemously, sex is more geared towards feeling the body while kissing, feeling the touch of your skin against his/hers while kissing.

There is a method, a design proposed by God in the art of loving. Tit for tat is a universally pervading law. No exceptions.

There is a suggestion, a hint, given by nature as to the art of loving - meeting of two reproduction organs. The effect of the twain meeting can not be reproduced by making any other part meet with any other part. Matching is required.

There is too much apparent sophistication in nature, but sophistication never implies complexity. Nature is simple, so simple that we seem to ignore and ridicule the possible existence of such ideas.

Kiss the lips with the lips, kiss the hands with the hands, kiss the feet with the feet. When you touch the hands of your beloved, there might run through you a spark, a shiver. Touching the neck of your beloved with your hand will never ever produce the same effect.

That is the ideal situation.

Sex is an act of showing to your loved one that you are incomplete without him/her; that the union of your bodies and the soul completes both of you.

Think of it, the power of reproduction, the most essential to existence. Reproduction is not possible without complement. No two men can reproduce, no two women can reproduce.

Think of this on a grander scale; nature works on the principle of cooperation and complement. You can not survive alone; you have to take help and give help incessantly.

This taking and giving help, in other words, the knowledge of the other person’s importance in your life brings a degree of modesty in you.

I say I am in love. I am confident of the fact that this is not limerence (the not-so-common word for infatuation) for the lone reason that I have never fantasized making intercourse to the person I love; which, sadly, is the case most boys perceiving their limerence as love, do.

This means that I am truly respecting the person’s identity, I am truly admiring the person’s ways… I am looking at inward beauty rather than ostensible beauty.

Think this is getting too much? I stop right here, otherwise I could go on and on, and bore you to death.

And I have not, with me, a grave ready to bury you.

Zakham itne gehre hai izhaar kya kare

Hum kHud nishana ban gaye var kya kare

Mar gae hum magar khuli rahi aankhe

Abg is se zyada unka intezaar kya kare…….

વરસોથી સળગતો એક પ્રશ્ન પુછુ તો તારો જવાબ શું હશે?
પ્રેમથી નીતરતો એક પત્ર લખુ તો તારો જવાબ શુ હશે?
પહેલી વખત ના પાડવાની આદત હોય છે સ્ત્રીઓને
બીજી વખત પ્રેમનો પ્રસ્તાવ મૂકુ તો તારો જવાબ શુ હશે?
હજી પણ આવે છે યાદમાં તો ક્યારેક આંસું બની આંખમાં
ભુલી ગયો તને એમ બોલું ખોટું તો તારો જવાબ શુ હશે?

Tane bhuli sakto nathi,

ane same joi sakto nathi,

koine khabar na pade etle,

vaat pan kari sakto nathi.

Tane prem to karu chu pan,

Tari jindgi ma avi sakto nathi,

swarth ni duniya ma jivu chu pan,

koi na kehva thi tane chodi sakto nathi,

tara vina ketlu bechen che maru maan,

te pan tane samjavi sakto nathi.

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